Arni is not a new guy as he's been with New Rattitude for
quite a while. Mr. Arni is a unique little dude with a sad history. He has a
lot of fears and is generally anxious, but he has learned over time that it's
okay to relax a bit here and there. He's a really short Teddy Roosevelt Terrier
and barely eleven pounds -- a tiny guy in a big world that's often scary to
him. It's easy to feel compassion for a frightened little dog, but what makes
Arni challenging is that his way of dealing with his fear is to go on the
offense.
Arni has clearly had his growl "punished out of him"
by others. This means that now humans don't get the welcome warning of a growl
when he's scared and needs for us to back off. He goes straight to the bite in
his own defense because he's learned that's the only thing that will
successfully give him needed space. This means that when we go out, I must
vigilantly maintain his safety bubble so that no one risks getting bitten. No matter how much strangers want to pet the cute little dog, he'd rather they didn't. This
also means that I must pay very close attention to all of his subtle body language
so that I don't get bitten when he perceives a threat. So many things in the
world are threatening to Arni: a look, a gesture, a tone of voice, a
movement, proximity of dogs or humans, certain noises. We humans would
understand this better and faster if he trembled behind a chair, but Arni plays
too-tough instead, rushing and tackling scary things to make them go away.
Arni and I have done a lot of work together and we've come
a long way. We still have a long way to go. Someone interested in Arni as a canine
companion would be someone willing to continue this work. Someone smarter than
I who can take a lesson from my hardheadedness and do this work with no
expectations. Someone who understands that a scared little guy whose brain
didn't get a chance to develop normally will need a light touch, an open heart,
and the freedom to make his own choices.
I'm a dog trainer and "rescue rehabber" of
a number of years. I used to think that all behavior could be molded to conform
to human desire with a logical plan, with enough hard work. Arni has humbled
the hell out of me. What I think now is that Arni is just Arni. He
doesn't need to be fixed. He needs to be helped to feel more comfortable. He isn't going to be "normal." He's just going to be Arni, an impossibly cute, weird, funny, at times happy, sweetly affectionate, morning guy who
needs to be allowed to be himself.
I realize that Arni's true nature is appealing
to about .0001% of potential adopters. That's okay. He and I are the stutter-stepper
team (two steps forward, one step back) and we'll keep at it while he grows into
a wider comfort zone. One day his new people will find him and decide that the real Arni is
the one for them.